It took me three weeks to write this post. Okay, I did not sit and write 8 hours a day. Actually, I did not write at all for days. Why? Because I was waiting for the perfect moment to focus on my piece. Of course, that never came, and, eventually, I said to myself: 'Come on, let's get this done!'.
Yes, I tend to be a perfectionist, and I fight against this trait of mine all the time because I know that struggling for perfection will not necessarily help me achieve my goals.
Often perfectionism comes from low self-confidence, and it may falsely create a sense of control. It actually puts you in a situation of vulnerability, because when you strive for perfection, you are more exposed to fe